Be x Do = Have. Have is what you want, Do represents the action you take, and Be represents who you need to be to take the action, to get you what you want. However, unfortunately, there’s a flip-side default factor. If we are not in the zone, getting clear on what works for us, how we need to show up, and conditioning ourselves for wealth, abundance, and prosperity, our default factor slides to what we don’t have. Because of this some people go by the theory of Have ÷ Do = Be.
What does that mean? Unfortunately, some think that when I have this, I will do this, and I will be more confident. Or I will be the person I need to be and will grow when I have more wealth. When I am rich, I’ll be able to take vacations, and I will be a person who enjoys myself more. When I have the car, I always wanted, then I’ll be able to drive around and be happy and confident. Why would you think this way? It doesn’t serve you happily and healthily. Don’t set yourself up with rules that this or that has to happen before you can take action and be the person you want to be. It doesn’t work that way.
What would happen if you talked, thought, and asked questions like this? Who do I need to be to be happy with myself? To be confident, to have fun, to be the leader, to spread energy, abundance and information. To take the action I need to take to empower my team, grow my company, and build my relationship with my spouse and children so I can have wealth and be happy every day. Great question. When you become the person, you need to be, you’ll take the proper action to get what you want.
Now, let’s work backward. Let’s say you want more wealth. Let’s say you want a more organized, aligned, and efficient team. A more streamlined business. What actions do I need to take to get this? However, most importantly, who do I need to be? Who do I need to grow into as a leader, as a person, and as a communicator, to take that action, to get what I want?
Don’t set yourself up for failure and say, “Well, I will be the person when I get this. When I have this, then I can be and do.” No. I commit to being who I need to be to take action to get me clear on what needs to happen for me to get everything I want in this world because I know the only way I will get that is I need to grow into the person who deserves it.
Remember, God has a plan for you. He’s just expecting you to do the work to receive his plan, and his plan is for you to become the person you need to be; to take the action you need to take to receive his plan (what you want). Set yourself up for success. Learn, grow, educate, take yourself out of your comfort zone, and become the person you need to be to get yourself what you want.
In conclusion; it’s Be x Do = Have, NOT Have ÷ Do = Be.
COACH MICHAEL DILL is an Award-Winning Certified Business Coach, global speaker, and published author. He is a proud Action Coach Franchise partner as well as the President of Power & Ice Wealth Creation a strategic leadership company that works with business owners, leaders, teams, and entrepreneurs to both develop a systematized and structured organization while accelerating their mindset, efficiencies, and effectiveness to grow both personally and professionally to achieve extraordinary results. He brings more than 40 years of business and entrepreneurial experience in his leadership, team training, and mentoring practice. Businesscoachmichaeldill.com